| Drunk Dialing - Break Up Blues - Inebriated E-mails Post Break Up Relationship Blunders! |
May 12 - Well, the much dreaded drunk dialing happened to me a couple of
days ago. Many of us have fallen victim to this late night dignity
destroyer! Not only did I drunk dial an ex, but also followed it up
with a drunk and inebriated email letter.
What brings us down to the level of groveling in a drunken stupor
and verbally pining your desperation to your ex. We know that we
will regret it the next day, and often don't even recall exactly
pathetic that you sounded. You lay there searching your clouded
mind grasping for clues.. You then check your email "outbox" and
see the damages.. Its a painful process when you see the "One
sent email" but you have to know the full extent of your pitiful
actions..
I was implementing the Post Break Up Full No Contact Policy and
have recently started to feel like a real person again! Well, I went
out to the local bar for some socialization and one pitcher led to
another and by the end of the night I was quite drunk. After
arriving home I headed for the computer (What else is their to do
at 2:00 AM in the morning right? I had no intentions of sending
any emails until I saw her "away message" (Won't be back till
Thursday).. It was only Monday at the time.
No other explanation was given other than that she was off
somewhere for three days. You have to remember that I was
quite wasted and a flood of images filled my mind. Who was she
with? Where was she at? Has she moved on and found
somebody else? Really, it was quite pathetic. Rational thought
isn't always possible after 3 pitchers of beer, and a couple of
shots!
Then I started contemplating calling her on the cell phone (at 2:30
in the morning mind you!).. Confused, drunk, lonely, jealous, and
disoriented at 2:30 in the morning isn't a good combination. So, I
cracked up open another beer out of the fridge (still needed more
liquid courage! lol) and went to get my cell phone to give her a
call..
Of course everybody loves getting woken up in the middle of the
night to listen to a speech slurring drunk ex girlfriend or boyfriend
calling them.. Women find that very sexy when a man does that!
NOT! Well, I can't tell you exactly how the conversation went
because frankly it was just a blurr.. I do remember a lot of "I miss
you", "I'm sorry", "I don't want our relationship to be over", and
"I'm lost without you lines"...
The real pathetic thing is that I don't want to be with her ever
again. She brought me nothing but heartache. Why would I call
her and tell her all of those things? I think it was because of my
fear that she has found someone new. I guess I'm definitely not
over her because that shouldn't bother me at all if I was! I don't
want to be with her, but I don't want her to be with someone else!
Crazy huh? Breaking up with someone you cared about definitely
gives you a momentary lapse of reason! When you pour booze
on top of that then your running a high risk of the late night drunk
dialing nightmare.
Drunk dialing will leave you feeling very pathetic the next day.
Your dignity will be shattered. It wont help you reconcile with your
ex. Drunk e-mailing could be even worse because your words are
their "and possibly saved" in her email box to be re-read over and
over again! After drunk dialing my ex I followed it up with an email
that pretty much made me nauseous. Time to start "No Contact"
over again. Once you break "No Contact" all of the emotions you
felt from the original breakup come flooding back. You basically
have to start over the healing process. Your back at square one.
So unless you are a glutton for punishment you have to basically
shut them out of your life and start again and head down a
different direction. You can't keep exposing yourself to the pain
unless you really enjoy being an emotional masochist.
days ago. Many of us have fallen victim to this late night dignity
destroyer! Not only did I drunk dial an ex, but also followed it up
with a drunk and inebriated email letter.
What brings us down to the level of groveling in a drunken stupor
and verbally pining your desperation to your ex. We know that we
will regret it the next day, and often don't even recall exactly
pathetic that you sounded. You lay there searching your clouded
mind grasping for clues.. You then check your email "outbox" and
see the damages.. Its a painful process when you see the "One
sent email" but you have to know the full extent of your pitiful
actions..
I was implementing the Post Break Up Full No Contact Policy and
have recently started to feel like a real person again! Well, I went
out to the local bar for some socialization and one pitcher led to
another and by the end of the night I was quite drunk. After
arriving home I headed for the computer (What else is their to do
at 2:00 AM in the morning right? I had no intentions of sending
any emails until I saw her "away message" (Won't be back till
Thursday).. It was only Monday at the time.
No other explanation was given other than that she was off
somewhere for three days. You have to remember that I was
quite wasted and a flood of images filled my mind. Who was she
with? Where was she at? Has she moved on and found
somebody else? Really, it was quite pathetic. Rational thought
isn't always possible after 3 pitchers of beer, and a couple of
shots!
Then I started contemplating calling her on the cell phone (at 2:30
in the morning mind you!).. Confused, drunk, lonely, jealous, and
disoriented at 2:30 in the morning isn't a good combination. So, I
cracked up open another beer out of the fridge (still needed more
liquid courage! lol) and went to get my cell phone to give her a
call..
Of course everybody loves getting woken up in the middle of the
night to listen to a speech slurring drunk ex girlfriend or boyfriend
calling them.. Women find that very sexy when a man does that!
NOT! Well, I can't tell you exactly how the conversation went
because frankly it was just a blurr.. I do remember a lot of "I miss
you", "I'm sorry", "I don't want our relationship to be over", and
"I'm lost without you lines"...
The real pathetic thing is that I don't want to be with her ever
again. She brought me nothing but heartache. Why would I call
her and tell her all of those things? I think it was because of my
fear that she has found someone new. I guess I'm definitely not
over her because that shouldn't bother me at all if I was! I don't
want to be with her, but I don't want her to be with someone else!
Crazy huh? Breaking up with someone you cared about definitely
gives you a momentary lapse of reason! When you pour booze
on top of that then your running a high risk of the late night drunk
dialing nightmare.
Drunk dialing will leave you feeling very pathetic the next day.
Your dignity will be shattered. It wont help you reconcile with your
ex. Drunk e-mailing could be even worse because your words are
their "and possibly saved" in her email box to be re-read over and
over again! After drunk dialing my ex I followed it up with an email
that pretty much made me nauseous. Time to start "No Contact"
over again. Once you break "No Contact" all of the emotions you
felt from the original breakup come flooding back. You basically
have to start over the healing process. Your back at square one.
So unless you are a glutton for punishment you have to basically
shut them out of your life and start again and head down a
different direction. You can't keep exposing yourself to the pain
unless you really enjoy being an emotional masochist.
May 19th - View A Letter To Keep From Dialing or E-Mailing Your Ex Boyfriend or
Girlfriend after a relationship has ended and your left feeling Broken Hearted
Girlfriend after a relationship has ended and your left feeling Broken Hearted
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